hi everybody. church members, Church family, relatives, neighbors, and friends. i have a confession to make. i dont do celebrations well. ive passed this on to my family and muted a lot of our birthdays and milestones and inflection points where we could see fruit growing from long seasons of cultivation and pressure. it’s easy to celebrate others, but i always fear ours being undercut or scandalized, used to make us comfortable and vulnerable by people who don’t like our pace or direction as missionaries.
this morning our oldest sons went out the door together at 5:30 as always, but this time one had crutches from some bullying we hope is addressed at the school level and the other left home with a burden to be whatever his brother needed during the two hour ride to school.
i already missed celebrating one birthday publicly. youssouf turned 3 in february (and confessed saving faith in Christ two weeks ago), and i as usual waited for fruit and focused on making it through. im sorry. it seems we’re on the other side of a long tunnel, and i can say that the time has come to celebrate some past, present, and future victories. abraham y elijah, todos ustedes han sido fieles y fructiferos en su campo misional. thanks for taking coya seriously and modeling it for your younger brothers.
kwaku, you’re the missionary to us. your birth healed mom’s body and soul after a miscarriage and eight long years of feeling like our hopes and dreams died, and your discipleship led youssouf to jesus, as you declared to us you were going to do when homeschool started two years ago! and setumte is loved and growing and watching yall. you join us in our coya meetings and bible studies, and shepherd your younger brothers like elijah does with abraham to make sure we’re loved as we try to love others. we cant do this without you.
i know im leaving people out. but this is just the beginning and it’s already really long. i dont like to spend longer on loving my family than i do on our community, but i am changing. thanks for taking so much of that load off my shoulders, and loving me as well. especially you elizabeth. i love you. #coya fo life.